You need You

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 Love yourself through your mistakes. Whether those mistakes are intentional or unintentional. We live in a world where some people will condemn you for the same mistakes that they have made. Show yourself the same mercy and grace that you would show the next person. Comfort yourself the way you would others. Have your own back. Show up for yourself. Have in mind that you deserve the love, that you give to others. Stop putting yourself last. Stop being the last person who reaps the benefits of your own growth. You keep trying to show others just how good you are for them only to realize that you will never be enough. Be good for you. Be enough for you. 

Darling, it's time that you give yourself the gift that you've been trying to give to others. What is that? I'm glad you ask. It's the you that you've been trying to give to others. How about that? 
Hey you, may you live yourself to yourself. 

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