To the lonely person that no one really checks in with...This is for you.

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Are you okay?.
I hope you're not thinking bad thoughts towards yourself. I know it's been hard for you lately. I'm sorry that there isn't anything specifically that I can do for you but I just want you to know that it's okay. I know that you've been feeling overwhelmed lately dealing with other people's issues while you've been suffering in silence with issues of your own. 

Loneliness...I wonder if it's an emotional and mental illusion or if people really don't care about the person they claim that they love. I'm sorry that you've had to cry about not feeling loved often.  There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel affection and wanting someone to pay attention to you. I think that it sucks that you've had to express that in habits that have only created a bigger void. 

I just wanted to let you know that you matter. you are not alone. I hope you let the lack of love and affection motivate you to do something positive. The world may not deserve your authenticity but there is someone who does deserve to feel your heart. There is someone out there who deserves to know that you would do what the people around you couldn't do for you.

So then, no matter what has happened lately, don't stop trying to do good and be good. Don't stop being a creative genius. Don't stop being you. I'll never find someone else like you in this world. 

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